Apart from Taylor Swift’s love story, a perfect
love story is a dream. There can be many ups and downs and sometimes the
relationship simply doesn’t work.
The
statistics show that men tend to break up more than women.
Also, they
are often fast in their act, i.e. they contemplate less on the topic and are
less likely to carry the baggage from the past.
There can
be more than one reason for men to pull away from a relationship. It always
doesn’t have to do with finding a new partner, though it remains the most
prevailing cause.
Following are 10 most common reasons why
men pull away or break-up with their girlfriends:
1. NOT FINDING IT INTERESTING:
You can stick to someone as long as you are interested in that person but
beyond that it only becomes monotonous. Most people give up in a relationship
because they start missing the chemistry that was once binding them together.
2. WOMEN DON’T LISTEN:
Most men complain the same about their partners. Women simply don’t listen. So,
when your guy is talking allow him to finish. It’s common in men to try to be
high-handed in a relationship. So, when they are ignored by their partners
their male ego is hurt.
3. MISSING SPACE:
Men hate it when women try to be together all the time. No matter what but ‘men
will remain men’ and allowing them their space will only make them grateful to
you.
4. MEN DOMINATE: MEN ARE EGOISTS.
They may like your independent spirit at the beginning but once you are in a
relationship they would want you to be dependent on them.
5. DON’T CRITICIZE:
Some women are too good at finding faults in their partners. But no one is
perfect. Criticizing him too often or wanting him to change will only cause
tension in a relationship and may lead to a break-up. Men are too touchy
towards criticism.
6. SEXUALITY:
Men don’t believe in platonic love. For them ‘seeing is believing’. While women
are more of the emotional type, men attach more value to physical aspects.
Lousy sex or drop in physical intimacy often remains the prevalent cause for a
man to leave a relationship.
7. EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT:
Male feeling however isn’t limited only to physicality. But they also attach a
high value to emotional attachment. They love to believe that their partner is
emotionally dependent on them. But avoid over doing it since men don’t like it
when you are over dependent on them.
8. REFERENCES FROM PAST:
Men don’t like to be reminded about their faults. He doesn’t like the past
references of his mistakes when in an argument. This can push him off the edge.
9. AVOIDING HIS FRIENDS:
May be you don’t like his friends but avoid criticizing them in his presence.
Men are too touchy about their friends and if you discard them they can also
see it as your rejecting him.
10. KEEP THINGS PRIVATE:
Men don’t like if women discuss everything that has happened between them with
their friends and family. Men often complain that women too often discuss their
romantic issues with their family and friends and also seek their suggestions to
correct it.
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