A KEY TO BEING IRRESISTIBLE TO MEN

What is the key to being irresistible to men?

 I recently spoke with a man about his courtship with a woman he absolutely adored. I asked him what was it about her. His reply? "I could not resist her resistance". If you want to know how to be irresistible, there is your answer. OFFER UP SOME RESISTANCE. EVEN LOVE WILL LOCATE YOU.

Men want to win. They want to win the heart of the woman. If it comes too easily, this is when he loses interest and often pulls away. This is why it's so important to resist him. It makes you hard to get. This is not a game. Your heart shouldn't be easy to get in the first place. It's valuable and you shouldn't just give it away to a man who hasn't put in the effort. You are the prize.

Resistance means not jumping through hoops every time he calls. It means if you have plans with the girls, you keep them and don't ditch them because you want to see him. Resistance means if he invites you to go somewhere that you aren't that crazy about, you aren't going simply to please him. You decline offers if they don't really suit you. I don't like sports. I can't help it, I just don't. A guy could have tickets to the Super Bowl and I would turn him down. I am not going along just to be in his presence.

The fact of the matter is men fall in love in your absence, not your presence. This is when they think about you. When they think about you their imaginations fill in the gaps. Usually with positive things. If you are always there jumping to be with him when ever humanly possible, he doesn't have time to think about you. If you offer no resistance, you offer no challenge. Men love a challenge. They simply can't resist it.

Men also like mystery. A woman that jumps right into a relationship with her heart is no mystery. She is an open book. Resistance actually builds up attraction in a man. It is the key to being irresistible to men. Resistance also show self-control. A woman with control of herself and her life is very very attractive to men and is hard to resist. He will put in effort to be a part of her world. He becomes challenged to get her attention because she won't just settle. If she chooses him, he feels very special.

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SIGNS A MAN IS IN LOVE

WATCH YOUR MAN!!!!!!!!!1

It's Monday night, or Sunday Afternoon. He chooses watching the lifetime channel with you over football or racing. If he does this, the man is in love.

He appears happy. His friends and family even notice and remark on how alive he seems. Something is going on here, this new attitude is a sign a man is in love.

He lets you keep feminine stuff at his house. He jokes about it, which means he is actually proud of it. Yep, he is smitten.

He starts taking better care of himself. Physically and financially. He may start thinking long term and become more responsible.

He goes out of his way for you. He will fly to see you. He will get up and go get you a doughnut in the middle of the night.

If you are sick and look like a hag, he loves you anyway. He will even hold your hair back if you are throwing up.

He makes sure holidays or birthdays are special to you. He doesn't just do nothing and say it's over rated.

He does something out of character. Maybe he goes with her and gets a facial. Maybe he goes shopping and is patient about it. Doing things out of character to make her happy is a sure sign a man is in love.

You won't have to ask how he feels because you just know it in your gut.

These are all signs a man is in love or a man is falling in love.

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WHAT MAKES A MAN WANT TO MARRY A WOMAN

ARE YOU THE PERFECT GIRLFRIEND?
 DO YOU DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO PLEASE HIM AND GAIN HIS AFFECTION?

 
You want to make his life easy because you love him. You may cook for him, clean, and do everything you can to please him and make him happy. Did it occur to you that this is why you don't have the ring yet? Don't get me wrong, I am not saying to not do anything for your man. If he is making you a priority in his life, by all means cook him a meal. It's the women that do all of this before they have any sort of commitment at all that shoot themselves in the foot. They over give and this comes off as the pick me pick me mentality. Doing and giving too much is not what makes a man commit and is not what makes a man marry you.

Imagine a world where the roles were reversed. Men cook for the women, do your laundry, pick up after you, and dote on you. On top of this he can't wait to get married. He owns a hope chest filled with household items and silk bow ties for his groomsmen to wear at his wedding. He greets you at the door in silk boxers and boots ready to do a pole dance for you. He looks at and remarks about every baby he sees. Then he adds a few ultimatums. Where is my ring? Why can't we get married? Chances are good you would think this guy was off his rocker and you would tie up you running shoes and sprint.

Funny thing is, a lot of women use this approach to catch a husband. They are the nice girl that puts everyone else's needs before her own. She would put her man's need before her own any day because she loves him so much. It's the woman who loves herself first that men adore. They respect a woman who will not compromise her own values and life for that of a man. A man's respect is the glue that holds it together. Earn his respect and you will win his heart. It's the key to whether he will ever marry you.

The women men marry are usually the ones that don't work overtime to catch a husband. They are strong, spirited women who stand up for themselves. She won't compromise herself. This makes a man classify her as a woman with a mind of her own that he can't walk all over like linoleum. This is the woman that a man will marry.




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WHAT MAKES A MAN FALL IN LOVE

A man doesn't fall in love with the woman he can live with. A man falls in love with the woman he can't live with out.

If you think it's the things you do that he can't live without, you might want to reconsider. Being good to a man simply isn't the key ingredient. So many women make their mistake here. They give and give hoping it will endear them to the man. They bend over backwards pleasing him. This isn't what makes a man fall in love. This is what makes you a doormat. A woman willing to sacrifice of herself to please another just isn't attractive, she is convenient at the most.

It's the woman that challenges him that men fall in love with. It's the woman who stands up for herself with feminine grace and feminine elegance that wins his heart. The woman that will show him with ease that she will not be a doormat. Men like to make women happy. It makes them feel good and makes them feel valued. Men fall in love with how you make them feel. If they can make you happy, they feel good. Think Tarzan running through the jungle pounding his chest and you get my drift.

It's not the things you do that make a man fall in love with you. It's the way you acknowledge, appreciate and accept the things he does that makes him fall in love with you.

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